Here’s the deal. After 6 dates or roughly a month, neither one of you may know exactly what you feel. I mean, you may, but you also may not. It’s still super early. So I’d not stress over that particular bit right now. It sounds like you’re also struggling over the direction you two are going though, and that is an acceptable conversation to have now. If you feel like you don’t want to see other people, for example. That’s a legitimate thing to express. You can broach the subject by asking him a question like “Are you dating anyone else?” or something. BUT! One thing you need to understand is that if you ask this type of question, you may NOT get angry when you get an honest answer. If he tells you he’s dating 20 other women, don’t get psycho-pants on him. Just tell him whether or not you’re comfortable with that at this stage and express what you’d like. The other issue I see here is the communication thing. I do not condone the reaction-only type of communication beyond initial encounters. It’s one thing to let a guy pursue you, but it’s another if after 6 dates, you’re only speaking when spoken to. If you are interested in this guy, it’s okay to pick up the phone first once in a while. If you don’t, you run the risk of sending the message that you’re not interested. And if you’ve been doing this for a while, he may already be unsure. For the record, note that this can feed into a reluctance to discuss where the two of you may be headed. If he isn’t sure if you’re into him, then he may not be sure if he should be into you. Bottom line? Call once in a while. And try to see where he is heading with this by asking non-threatening questions. Do not, under any circumstances, tell him you need to talk or make it seem like a big relationship discussion. Casual is the rule here. Be casual. And let me know how it goes.

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What are these magnificent powers, you might ask? Well I shall tell you! TNTLWYED is indeed the next to last woman you ever dated! (What? I said it was a lame title. But accurate.) While you may have been happy and she may have been an excellent girlfriend, you did not know true love until you left her and found…… The One. Dating TNTLWYED is a guarantee that you will someday soon be happy. Just never with her. You will try, but eventually things will end. Sad, but true. But grieve not! Because the next woman you date will be perfect for you in every way! You will connect instantly and know you were meant for each other! You will actually live happily forever after! And TNTLWYED will disappear, melting in the darkness of her solitary abode, her job well done. She will then go on to write bitter blog entries about how guys always find their perfect match just after breaking up with her. But you won’t ever notice. You will be deliriously happy. Such is the might of her dating super powers. I didn’t say it had to be a cool super power, now did I? How about you guys… what’s your dating super power?

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I have a dating super power, oh yes I do! I am not able to leap tall buildings in a single bound. I am not a bird nor a plane. I do not save babies from fires and kittens from trees. No no, I am simply known as The Next To Last Woman You Ever Dated! (TNTLWYED to you, mister.) Well okay, so the title is a little lame. But quite accurate at least. TNTLWYED is a lonely woman, as so many super heroes are. She leads a life of solitude and singledom, doomed to stay that way forever due to her magnificent powers. Yes TNTLWYED possesses awesome powers, but her power is also her downfall. So she lives a solitary life in a one bedroom apartment with just her cat for company.

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Yesterday I got this comment. With the author’s permission, I’m republishing it and serving up my first chunk of advice! Feel free to email or leave other questions in comments. It can be like “Dear Jane”…. sarcastic advice to live by! “..I have been dating a guy for almost a month (About 6 dates in total) but I still have no idea how he feels, I have been trying to play it real cool by not calling too much, reacting to his actions instead of being on the offensive(not sure if this is a good thing) but I still am at a loss. We have never had a convo about us and I am not sure if I want to yet…is it too soon?…”

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Here’s one for the DON’T list. Imagine seeing a profile on an online dating site. And imagine you thought you might like to meet that person. Then imagine sending the following email. Can you take me to the bakery? Because, I want a Cutie pie like you! You can’t imagine it can you? Why? Because it’s stupid. And it won’t get you a date. It will only get you deleted. PS – Lack of greeting or signature and random capitalization only add to the lack of charm.

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